
One of the benefits of having had much older relatives and my own adult-aged kids who are spaced ten years apart in age is I have seen, heard, and read nearly everything on baby care and child-raising trends. While some examples are potentially harmful, most are simply timely and humorous.
First example:
An "expert" from generations past: "If you want your child to be healthy, make sure he is fat enough!"
The first pediatrician I encountered: "Don't let him gain too much weight-- you don't want him to get fat!"
Second example:
My first child's pediatrician: "Never give him cow's milk-- cow's milk is for calves!"
My second child's pediatrician: "Have you switched her over to cow's milk yet?"
Third example:
First pediatrician: "Of course you should use a bottle-- breastfeeding is for animals."
Second pediatrician: "Why are you using a bottle-- don't you know breastfeeding is better for a baby?"
Fourth example:
Advice I received for first child: "Add a couple spoonfuls of cereal in his night bottle-- it's nutritious and helps a baby sleep better."
Advice I received for second child: "Never put cereal in a baby's bottle-- it's lazy, and the baby doesn't need it."
Well, you get the picture. :)
In recent years, I've seen the trend of using pacifiers. I've also heard from a couple of first-time mothers that their obstetricians advised them to smoke marijuana during pregnancy, to reduce morning sickness. I think they're clear examples that the "experts" often do not know what is best at all. It's better for moms and moms-to-be to rely on their own instincts and common sense. After all, if the experts really did know what they were talking about, "trends" would not change every few years.

